A week before she wedded, I fell sick, fever on tuesday & wednesday, headache on Thursday and a running nose today. Tomorrow I am going to go to her house as early as 7am, helping her to take video of the actual event. At around 1:30pm, I have to go down to the restaurant to decorate her staircase before I can go home.
My other friend, L, called me just now. She asked me if I am willing to be her flower girl during the match in. She told me that I will have to match in with her, in front and throw the flowers petals on the ground. I said that I am 170cm tall wearing a two inch high shoe. She will be totally cover up if I will to walk in front of her. So our conclusion is that we will asked her to drop the idea.
My friend, Y, that is going to be the bride this sat also sms me if I can help her with the burning of her CD songs. I am not sure if my dad computer is working a not so I give all kind of excuse. L called me and mentioned about this. I explained to her. I felt very bad not helping her but the stress of helping her is too much for me to bear. What if I cannot produce the music she wants for her tomorrow wedding?
I am so tired now, I wished I can go home and sleep now.
True story... very sad...
A police officer had a beautiful daughter, who fell in love with a boy who was an ordinary poor person. When the gals father came to know about their love, he did not like it at all, and so began to protest about it. Now it happened that the two lovers left their homes for a happy future. The gals father started searching for the two lovers but they could not find them.
At last, he accepted their love and asked them in a newspaper to come back. her father said that if u both come back i will marry u wit the guy u luv, I accept that u loved each other truly. So in this way their love won and the age old attitude of the tribe took a beating.
The couple went to the city to shop for the wedding. He was wearing a white traditional dress, and was crossing the road when a car came and hit him and he died on the spot. The girl lost her senses. After a long time she recovered and accepted that her love has died.
One night she was sleeping in her home with her family. Her mother had a dream in which she saw a fairy. That fairy asked her mother to wash the blood spots of the guy from her daughter's clothes as soon as possible.
But her mother ignored the dream. Next night the father saw the same dream, he also ignored it. Then when the girl had the same dream the next night,she woke up and told her mother about the dream. Her mother asked her to wash the clothes on which there were blood spots.
She washed the spots but some remained. Next night she again had the same dream she again washed the spots but some still remained.
Next night she again had the same dream and this time that fairy gave her last warning to wash the blood spots, else something terrible will happen. This time the girl tried her best to wash the spots, the clothes tore, but some spots still remained.
In the evening on same day when she was alone, someone knocked the door, when she opened the door she saw the fairy at the door. She got very scared and fainted. The fairy woke her up..., and gave her an object, That awe- struck girl asked "what is this..?
The fairy replied "..... Try Dynamo Liquid Soap... juz a dap & it will remove all stubborn stain ....."
I know what u all are feeling now... But don't look for me...
I'm also searching for the person who mailed this to me...
:)hahaha..sorry
At last, he accepted their love and asked them in a newspaper to come back. her father said that if u both come back i will marry u wit the guy u luv, I accept that u loved each other truly. So in this way their love won and the age old attitude of the tribe took a beating.
The couple went to the city to shop for the wedding. He was wearing a white traditional dress, and was crossing the road when a car came and hit him and he died on the spot. The girl lost her senses. After a long time she recovered and accepted that her love has died.
One night she was sleeping in her home with her family. Her mother had a dream in which she saw a fairy. That fairy asked her mother to wash the blood spots of the guy from her daughter's clothes as soon as possible.
But her mother ignored the dream. Next night the father saw the same dream, he also ignored it. Then when the girl had the same dream the next night,she woke up and told her mother about the dream. Her mother asked her to wash the clothes on which there were blood spots.
She washed the spots but some remained. Next night she again had the same dream she again washed the spots but some still remained.
Next night she again had the same dream and this time that fairy gave her last warning to wash the blood spots, else something terrible will happen. This time the girl tried her best to wash the spots, the clothes tore, but some spots still remained.
In the evening on same day when she was alone, someone knocked the door, when she opened the door she saw the fairy at the door. She got very scared and fainted. The fairy woke her up..., and gave her an object, That awe- struck girl asked "what is this..?
The fairy replied "..... Try Dynamo Liquid Soap... juz a dap & it will remove all stubborn stain ....."
I know what u all are feeling now... But don't look for me...
I'm also searching for the person who mailed this to me...
:)hahaha..sorry
A sneak preview of my evening gown
This is a sneak preview of my evening gown. It is layered with a very soft piece of cloth inside. It is very comfortable when wearing and it does not show your tummy.
Yesterday, my brother in-law
sended me some of his excel files he used during his wedding. It was very detail and was very helpful. It also makes me nervous.
The list include the programme for the wedding day, guest list, things to do, things to pack, helpers list, vehicles arrangement, etc.
I think we are going to do a lot of things last minute. There are a lot of things that I cannot decided for myself and I need to discuss with my in-law and with my hubby. However I got a super busy hubby, I dunno how am I going to handle all those stuffs or will he care at all. I was thinking about it last night and was not able to fall asleep again.
Well, I think I just have to let things be, I just hope that when the last minutes arrive, my hubby will be more kan cheong than me. I am getting tired of being the one that remind him all the time.
By the way, our restaurant remind us two weeks ago that we got to fill in the invitation card form so that they can print our invitation card. Our co-ordinator actually gave us two weeks to do it. Till today, my hubby has not got his parent's chinese name yet. If our restaurant decided not to print our wedding cards, I will ask my hubby to fork out his own money and find his own printer. I am not going to care.
I can understand why my friend complained to me that she quarrel with her hubby almost everyday since they decided to get married. It is always the gals that do the homework and tried to complete each task on time. The guys will just sit there and laugh at us for being kan cheong. I am so sick of the guys.
The list include the programme for the wedding day, guest list, things to do, things to pack, helpers list, vehicles arrangement, etc.
I think we are going to do a lot of things last minute. There are a lot of things that I cannot decided for myself and I need to discuss with my in-law and with my hubby. However I got a super busy hubby, I dunno how am I going to handle all those stuffs or will he care at all. I was thinking about it last night and was not able to fall asleep again.
Well, I think I just have to let things be, I just hope that when the last minutes arrive, my hubby will be more kan cheong than me. I am getting tired of being the one that remind him all the time.
By the way, our restaurant remind us two weeks ago that we got to fill in the invitation card form so that they can print our invitation card. Our co-ordinator actually gave us two weeks to do it. Till today, my hubby has not got his parent's chinese name yet. If our restaurant decided not to print our wedding cards, I will ask my hubby to fork out his own money and find his own printer. I am not going to care.
I can understand why my friend complained to me that she quarrel with her hubby almost everyday since they decided to get married. It is always the gals that do the homework and tried to complete each task on time. The guys will just sit there and laugh at us for being kan cheong. I am so sick of the guys.
Actually, I have some reserve on my evening gown being grey colour. I have been thinking if it will turn out nice and will people accepted my evening gown to be in grey colour. However, last night I got a dream. I saw myself wearing the grey colour evening gown to the exact design that I have told my designer. It was awesome. Today, I have more confidence. I think I want my evening gown to remain as grey.
I think for the evening gown, I am still blaming myself for overspending on it. However, I dun think I will change my designer mind on what I wanted. I am very bad and kept telling myself that my hubby will be the one paying for it, I felt so bad about it.
I have read that other people evening gown were costing them only $350. Comparing to mine which cost $2300, I think I really have overspend on my evening gown. I think I will changed into my evening gown almost immediately after the first dish. I wanted to display it as much as possible. I wanted to take as much pictures as possible making it worth.
I just sit down and talk to my mum on some of the details of my wedding. I also updated my to do list for each month. The thing that I have not come out with is the helper list, actual day events list, and the table sitting list. I think I will put a link here in this blog for people to download my list if they wanted to use them.
I think for the evening gown, I am still blaming myself for overspending on it. However, I dun think I will change my designer mind on what I wanted. I am very bad and kept telling myself that my hubby will be the one paying for it, I felt so bad about it.
I have read that other people evening gown were costing them only $350. Comparing to mine which cost $2300, I think I really have overspend on my evening gown. I think I will changed into my evening gown almost immediately after the first dish. I wanted to display it as much as possible. I wanted to take as much pictures as possible making it worth.
I just sit down and talk to my mum on some of the details of my wedding. I also updated my to do list for each month. The thing that I have not come out with is the helper list, actual day events list, and the table sitting list. I think I will put a link here in this blog for people to download my list if they wanted to use them.
My hubby knew that I was sad...
I guess he knew what was wrong. He did not apology to me neither did he talk about it. He called me while I was trying to sleep and asked me to said that three words to him. I told him I wanted to sleep.
Today, everything was all right again. He called me after my dinner and tell me things about my cats and what he ate today. I was trying to watch the TV at the same time not to let him know that I was watching the TV. Soon, he sense that I seems to be busy with something.
Today, everything was all right again. He called me after my dinner and tell me things about my cats and what he ate today. I was trying to watch the TV at the same time not to let him know that I was watching the TV. Soon, he sense that I seems to be busy with something.
I was kind of sad yesterday
because one of my cat urine at the main door. As I clean up the place before leaving, my hubby was watching me and asking me which one did it. After I have clean up the place and we were about to leave the house, my hubby wear his dirty shoe inside the house dirting the spot where I just clean up. I almost scream at him and you know what he said? He said well the floor is wet that is why his shoes make the dirty marks on the floor!
The reasons he gave me seem like it is not his fault that he dirty the floor. It is the fault of the floor being wet. He do not make any effort in keeping the house clean. The reason he always gave is that he was always too busy or tired from work. It seems that it is my duty to do all the cleaning in the house.
I kept quiet on my way back. I dun feel like getting married to this person anymore. It is funny why I feel like cooking for him in the evening and suddenly I dun feel like talking to him at night. I knew he can feel that I am angry and was feeling sad, but he do nothing.
I cannot sleep at night. I being to fear for the days staying with him. I will be his full time free maid and he will bear no respect for me.
I hope I am thinking too much.
The reasons he gave me seem like it is not his fault that he dirty the floor. It is the fault of the floor being wet. He do not make any effort in keeping the house clean. The reason he always gave is that he was always too busy or tired from work. It seems that it is my duty to do all the cleaning in the house.
I kept quiet on my way back. I dun feel like getting married to this person anymore. It is funny why I feel like cooking for him in the evening and suddenly I dun feel like talking to him at night. I knew he can feel that I am angry and was feeling sad, but he do nothing.
I cannot sleep at night. I being to fear for the days staying with him. I will be his full time free maid and he will bear no respect for me.
I hope I am thinking too much.
Something funny
Yes, I'll marry you, my dear,
And here's the reason why;
So I can push you out of bed
When the baby starts to cry,
And if we hear a knocking
And it's creepy and it's late,
I hand you the torch you see,
And you investigate.
Yes I'll marry you, my dear,
You may not apprehend it,
But when the tumble-drier goes
It's you that has to mend it,
You have to face the neighbour
Should our labrador attack him,
And if a drunkard fondles me
It's you that has to whack him.
Yes, I'll marry you,
You're virile and you're lean,
My house is like a pigsty
You can help to keep it clean.
That sexy little dinner
Which you served by candlelight,
As I do chipolatas,
You can cook it every night!
It's you who has to work the drill
and put up curtain track,
And when I've got PMT
it's you who gets the flak,
I do see great advantages,
But none of them for you,
And so before you see the light,
I do, I do, I do!
I can almost see my hubby laughing and clapping when I read this. I could hear him singing:
Yes, I'll marry you, my dear,
And here's the reason why;
You will be the one bearing my kids
and they will carry my surname.
You're virile and you're lean,
My house is like a pigsty
You can help to keep it clean.
My clothes need washing and ironing,
You will be the one doing it for free.
I do see great advantages,
But none of them for you,
And so before you see the light,
I do, I do, I do!
Well, I will be singing to him:
You will go out and work,
to earn the money for me to spend.
Muahahahahaha!
And here's the reason why;
So I can push you out of bed
When the baby starts to cry,
And if we hear a knocking
And it's creepy and it's late,
I hand you the torch you see,
And you investigate.
Yes I'll marry you, my dear,
You may not apprehend it,
But when the tumble-drier goes
It's you that has to mend it,
You have to face the neighbour
Should our labrador attack him,
And if a drunkard fondles me
It's you that has to whack him.
Yes, I'll marry you,
You're virile and you're lean,
My house is like a pigsty
You can help to keep it clean.
That sexy little dinner
Which you served by candlelight,
As I do chipolatas,
You can cook it every night!
It's you who has to work the drill
and put up curtain track,
And when I've got PMT
it's you who gets the flak,
I do see great advantages,
But none of them for you,
And so before you see the light,
I do, I do, I do!
I can almost see my hubby laughing and clapping when I read this. I could hear him singing:
Yes, I'll marry you, my dear,
And here's the reason why;
You will be the one bearing my kids
and they will carry my surname.
You're virile and you're lean,
My house is like a pigsty
You can help to keep it clean.
My clothes need washing and ironing,
You will be the one doing it for free.
I do see great advantages,
But none of them for you,
And so before you see the light,
I do, I do, I do!
Well, I will be singing to him:
You will go out and work,
to earn the money for me to spend.
Muahahahahaha!
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